I was a virgin. Ever desperate for firsthand information on the most famous sport played on earth. Friends would share it but always with a reference to somebody else. Always wondered, if I'll ever get to learn the basics before I take the plunge. It remained a dream. Still a novice and I lost it. And there begun my education on sex.
I would gather knowledge from magazines, internet and of course from my own experience. But one thing that kept eluding me is the firsthand information, because the irony is that mutual sex education works on barter system. And I was never in a position to reveal my secrets of sexual escapades in my circle.
The more I explored about the V-zone, the more intriguing it became as in how others might be perceiving it. There was just no end to the curiosity, and huge dearth of viewpoints.
In the process I learnt that none of my girlfriends were averse to the idea of a blowjob. Quite contrary to the popular belief that Indian girls prefer not to go down there. I still wonder how many girls still find it to be a taboo and how many find it as just another act of foreplay.
Giving oral sex to your woman is a different ballgame altogether. Many find it yucky. A few conversation with guys on the conceptual level revealed that they wouldn't even think about it. Their manhood is good enough for their woman. How hypocritical we can get. Perhaps very few are aware of the fact that oral sex guarantees you an orgasm for your partner in 9 out of 10 cases. Of course, only if your heart is in it. Most of my partners have been apprehensive about it in the beginning. But once comfortable, they've rated it even higher than intercourse. That's the power of oral sex. Needless to mention I feel completely in control, when I see my partner writhe in pleasure as I make her go around "heaven". Yes, that's the word I've heard invariably. Boy! At times I wish I were a woman.
I'm yet to come to terms with the common belief that men only last 10 mins. At times I wonder if it's a myth. A controlled agression helps me last upto 15-20 mins on an average. And on my day I can reach upto 45 mins (reached twice) and if I feel like God then can hit 55 mins (reached once). All of it without any energy supplement. I would love to know how things are with you guys or your partner. I'm sure I would get many positive responses.
The virgin me is history. I'm still craving for that firsthand information.
